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Tease and Denial? Why not just orgasm?

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In the world of phone sex, the point of tease and denial is to build up an orgasm until the point the client is ready to explode, and make them stop just prior and let their dick simmer down, only to bring it back up again.  This is then repeated until the operator feels like letting them explode, or the sub is begging you to give in to his demands (although that doesn’t mean you have to).

I’m sure you’re wondering… why not just let them orgasm?

Tease and denial is all about relinquishing control to your partner, and in phone sex, their partner is the girl on the other line.  Whether the guy is actually following the directions or not is neither here nor there.

In person is obviously different than over the phone, so when I say certain things, it’ll sound like I mean in person, but it’s more them imagining that we are there with them.

Everyone has different ways of teasing a person and a lot of it depends on what the submissive is into. It could be using your feet on his dick or rubbing them in his face.  It could be just sitting in front of him masturbating or touching your body while he plays with himself or isn’t allowed to touch himself at all.  It could be gently rubbing your fingers up and down his dick and balls, over his nipples, blowing your hot breath onto his dick.  Or it could just be a tease of an orgasm, meaning you get him so close to the edge, let him almost taste the orgasm (so to speak) and then forcing him to stop.

Because I only do this over the phone, I like to talk about all the different ways I might tease the client if I was there, but at the same time, I love to make them touch themselves and give instructions on how to do so.  The whole point is that I have the control over their penis, even though they are the one who is touching it.  The client listens and obeys whatever I say and by the time I make them orgasm, they will explode.

Instructions are always the key component.  Giving detailed instructions of what they should do on the other end will make it easier for them to comply, and for them to have an amazing orgasm and call back again.

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10 reasons to try phone sex

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There are lots of different ways to explore our sexual desires―with numerous sex positions and types such as oral sex, vaginal sex and anal sex. Going with the norm might seem like a safe way to unleash your fantasies but then, another sex type that’s worth the try is phone sex.

Phone sex offers a whole new experience especially for those who are conversant with sexting. There’s lots of sexual activity involved even without physical contact.

Now, here are 10 reasons you should definitely consider having phone sex.

  1. It’s fantastic for long distance relationships

Horny? No problem. Phone sex bridges the gap between you and your partner living in another location. Getting frisky is only a matter of lifting the phone and dialling a number.

  1. It is sexier and more appealing than sexting

Sexting might be all you need to get your groove on, but hearing that luscious voice over the phone can turn you on faster than any line of text can.

  1. It’ll greatly improve active sex conversations

You could be the type that keeps it hushed up during sex, but then dirty talks can make the act more pleasurable. Phone sex does help in improving that aspect, as it makes it more comfortable to engage in such conversations in real life.

  1. It stirs the butterflies next time you see your partner

There a high probability that you’d get extremely horny during phone sex with a sexy voice speaking into your ears.

Now, you’re also bound to imagine that mind blowing phone call next time you see you partner. Sparks would definitely fly and your stomach would be choking on butterflies.

  1. It helps in improving your communication with your partner

Are you a shy introverted person? Phone sex would help you loosen up. While it might be a bit awkward initially, once it kicks in you and your partner would have a blast and it’ll greatly improve your conversations in real life.

There’s also a chance that in the midst of all the sexual tension, you might discover a thing or two about each other. Isn’t that great?

 

  1. It’s a great way to explore intimacy

Some sex positions might not be comfortable with you or your partner, but phone sex allows you explore more forms of intimacy without actually giving it a try.

  1. Phone sex allows you to get comfortable with your body

Rather than just plain talking, most people also masturbate while being cheered on by their partner. This helps you explore your body more and discover that which you enjoy and what you don’t.

  1. It allows you explore your fantasies

Speaking about your numerous fantasies might appear embarrassing in real life, but then phone sex makes it easier to discuss and explore these fantasies.

It can even help you gain more confidence and translate these fantasies into real life.

  1. It’s a safer options than sharing nudes

The internet is already littered with leaked nudes that were initially meant to be private; phone sex eliminates a large portion of the danger, as it’s very unlikely that the conversation would be recorded and shared.

Besides, it saves you the stress of waiting for some time before getting intimate with your partner.

  1. The remote talk can be a huge turn on

The lack of visibility can increase the sex appeal, as your senses are heightened with your partner’s erotic voice and heavy breathing triggering all the right hormones.

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