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Tease and Denial? Why not just orgasm?

In the world of phone sex, the point of tease and denial is to build up an orgasm until the point the client is ready to explode, and make them stop just prior and let their dick simmer down, only to bring it back up again.  This is then repeated until the operator feels like letting them explode, or the sub is begging you to give in to his demands (although that doesn’t mean you have to).

I’m sure you’re wondering… why not just let them orgasm?

Tease and denial is all about relinquishing control to your partner, and in phone sex, their partner is the girl on the other line.  Whether the guy is actually following the directions or not is neither here nor there.

In person is obviously different than over the phone, so when I say certain things, it’ll sound like I mean in person, but it’s more them imagining that we are there with them.

Everyone has different ways of teasing a person and a lot of it depends on what the submissive is into. It could be using your feet on his dick or rubbing them in his face.  It could be just sitting in front of him masturbating or touching your body while he plays with himself or isn’t allowed to touch himself at all.  It could be gently rubbing your fingers up and down his dick and balls, over his nipples, blowing your hot breath onto his dick.  Or it could just be a tease of an orgasm, meaning you get him so close to the edge, let him almost taste the orgasm (so to speak) and then forcing him to stop.

Because I only do this over the phone, I like to talk about all the different ways I might tease the client if I was there, but at the same time, I love to make them touch themselves and give instructions on how to do so.  The whole point is that I have the control over their penis, even though they are the one who is touching it.  The client listens and obeys whatever I say and by the time I make them orgasm, they will explode.

Instructions are always the key component.  Giving detailed instructions of what they should do on the other end will make it easier for them to comply, and for them to have an amazing orgasm and call back again.

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