Don’t you love dating – especially now that you’re not a teenager anymore and have managed to gain a bit of self-confidence and lose that bad case of acne. It might be love, it might be lust, but who cares as long as you’re having fun? You can work out what’s going to come later when the time comes. Maybe you’re hoping to keep it casual and found your date on Flirthookup or Xcheaters so there can’t be any confusion as to your intentions, maybe you’re hoping for something more. In the meantime, you’re just looking for some fun date ideas – ones where the lady might enjoy herself too and where you’ll earn extra points towards the time you make your first move.
You don’t get to see much of the girl during a movie, well, you’re supposed to be watching the screen – and bars mean you’ll have to put up with your mates interrupting and potentially competing with you for the lady’s attentions. Here are some fun ideas that will give you a chance to get to know each other better.
Browse for stationary together
Most women love nice stationary and, admit it, even though you’ve got the latest printer and do most of your work on your computer, so do you. Buy her nice pen – not one of those over-the-top expensive ones, just a nice one and you’ve already scored a whole lot of points. While you’re browsing, you can chat – maybe go for coffee afterwards. It’s nice and relaxed.
Go for a walk
Don’t over plan. Just take whatever route your feet feel like taking. If you get lost, it’s part of the fun. Look at shop windows, visit the park with a take-away snack you got along the route – just take it as it comes. If she’s good company, you’re going to have a very pleasant time doing these simple things together and because it’s unplanned and impromptu, it has a certain element of adventure.
Do something that doesn’t cost anything
Look out for weird and wonderful events with free entry. The weirder it is, the more fun it might be. Go and check out the local buskers – or plan a route through town where you can see a variety of free entertainments. Reddit can be a great source of info – the more bizarre the event, the more likely it is to be memorable. Being memorable is definitely means you’ve made an impression, so feel free to go for the strangest activities you can find.
Have fun and don’t be too serious
So you gave in to convention and picked a movie. Make it memorable by joking about the film afterwards. You chose the bar and your mates were all over her. Make fun of them. Taking things lightly often makes a great impression and turns an otherwise unmemorable date into a really fun evening you’ll be remembered for.
Dance like crazy
It doesn’t matter if you’re a good dancer or not. What matters is that you’re willing to let down that macho guard and just go and have fun on the dance floor. You often see it in pubs and clubs: the girl’s tapping her foot and she just wants to start moving to the music, but her partner is nailed to the bar and won’t dance with her even if she asks. Usually, it all ends up with a mostly feminine crowd rocking the dance floor while the gents hang out on the side lines. Break out of the mould! Having fun, physical fun on the dance floor might be the prequel to a different type of physical fun later on.